Vern’s blog

Well, guess I'm officially 24 as of 2 days ago. Bit much that can be done about that is there. The more we try to escape from our ages, the faster is seems to creep up on us. The year can be said to have gone by in a flash and the reality of it is that it probably has, considering so much has happened in the past year. I try to spend a dew hours on my birthday to go through the events of the past year, and of course it helps that a blog would be quite useful in that regards. One more year till a quarter of a century! Sorry, just had to add that part in.

As far as birthdays go, this has been a pretty good one, considering I got lots of presents and I've come to know and love quite a few more great friends, whom have had such an impact on my life. Not to mention my wonderful man, whom seems to know how to spoil me.

To start of with, we had a great dinner at Jacque  Raymond, whom some critics day is the best restaurant in Melbourne. We had the degustation menu which included a 7 course meal and I must say that each round was quite a treat. In total the meal took about 3 hours to complete, which is really quite a long dinner, but I didn't seem to notice the night go by. He presented my gifts to me at the dining table, though the present wasn't really a surprise, considering that the silly boy left  the receipts for my presents on my dining room table and I happened to see it when I throwing out the rubbish. The surprise wasn't all ruined though, cause I didn't know the design of the wallet, he had gotten me and it was a really nice wallet I must add.

As I'm writing now, I'm getting ready to head of to my karaoke session with my friends and I'm expecting it to be a great night out. Pictures of the events will be posted soon. Got to run off in my other presents from Jenny and Marlene, which include a lovely vest from A/X and a top hat. I presume they want to dress me up like Justin Timberlake. I have no real idea to the reasons behind this, but I'm wearing them anyways.

Well, it's been ages since I've even touched this blog to the point where I had almost totally forgotten that I had a blog existing. I guess what brought this up was that Adam mentioned it one night, and suddenly it's sort of rekindled my flame to write down as much junk as i can into this page.

If I'm going to have to recall all the things that have happened since September last year it would probably do my head in. I mean, how much long term memory can one person have. But I'll try my best to fill in whatever i can remember. Well, we had the whole Christmas and New Years celebrations during the end of the year and all that went well, got quite a few nice presents from my dear and loving friends.(Mostly my workmates). Adam still could not think of what to get me for Christmas so I decided that I'd like to get the I-phone from when we go to Hong Kong in January. I was so excited counting down the days till we were off.

Before the whole festive season had begun, my parents had flown over from Malaysia to pay us a visit and to aid in the searching for a house to buy for my brother. That was all a very long and tedious process, discussing this and that and driving around everywhere. Oh, and Adam invited my parents over for dinner with his parents, and that sure was a such a nervous time for me. I'm thinking it was more nervous for Adam then it was for me. Thankfully everything ran smoothly and we had quite a wonderful time actually, so much so that we had completely lost track of the time and it was nearly 12.30am by the time we left. This was actually cause by one of the clocks in the house which seemed to have stopped working. Thank God that day was over and went well.

Time for the Hong Kong trip I suppose. I really couldn't wait to get on the plane and fly off to Hong Kong for my first proper overseas holiday without my parents in about seven years. Not to mention that I was also going over to catch up with some of my closest old uni friends and my best friend Marie whom I adore so very much. I reckon you'll only meet around 4 -6 people in your life whom you'll be able to have such a close friendship and deep understanding with and I'm glad I've already found two of them. Hong Kong just went by so quickly. All we mainly did was eat and shop. Though the food was soooo good over that it was hard not to stop eating. Adam brought my out for dinner at a fancy restaurant on the 2nd last night of our trip and it was very romantic to be eating dinner just with him and at the same time get away from the gang for a little. Seriously, that boy is so nice and thoughtful, wouldn't think I could find a better man for myself. We stayed in this dogey apartment which had such small rooms and toilets it was amazing how anyone could actually take a proper shower in them.  Alas the end of the trip had come and there were a few sad faces around, such were the times we had and it'll be an experience that will be unforgettable.

Oh i didn't mention that I received a promotion at work to become the Process Improvement Co-ordinator for the Microbiology department and it's been quite a lot of fun learning something new and trying to work out how to improve the processes of some of the things we do in the lab so that we become more efficient at what we're doing. The downside of all this is that people are always quite resistant to change and you're always going to have a few people who are unhappy of the changes cause they have to do things differently, but I guess it's my job to make sure that they follow the new procedures or else it's no point making any of these changes. It can get quite boring sometimes just sitting down at the desk and working away, make me feel so lethargic, so every so often I'll get off my ass and start doing some testing on the bench. What makes it harder for me to implement change I suppose is that everyone still sees me as this Laboratory Technician, so it's hard to assert an authority. Anyways, this is comething I'm going to have to work on if I wish to become a good manager some day.

Fast forward everything to the last week or so, we celebrated Jenny's birthday on Saturday and had a full on Greek festival, meat on the spit and all. This was organized by Lorell and Kath, both whom I must say are excellent cooks and all their dishes turned out so well. This Wednesday is going to be my birthday and Adam is going to be taking me to Jacque Raymond which I think will be such a gastronomical treat! I've heard many good reviews about that place. See what i mean about being such a thoughtful boyfriend. Oh and I also can't wait to get my presents! I love presents! Well we'll just have to wait till this weekend to see what happens. Might also be going out for karaoke Friday and then drinks on Saturday. This week will be quite a packed out week for me, but meh, only happens once a year. Farewell till the next blog.

Well, its been too long since I've decided to add a post to my blog and maybe it's because I've just been too lazy or that I really just don't have the time to sit down and write something. At the moment Ad's is watching Seinfield so i guess thats given me some time to get a bit in.

So whats been happening lately?I guess you could say I'm pretty much tied down with work and doing basically 10-12 hours shifts daily. Its all getting a bit too much, not just for me, but for everyone else in the company. Morale is so low at the moment its no longer bearable, with some peoples private lives being affected by the situation. I guess because i don't have a family it hasn't really affected me that much. But I've seen the effects first hand when I had to make Ad's wait one and half hours in the cold because I could not get off work on time. I mean, he was pretty annoyed, well, from what i sensed anyways, but he was nice and understanding about it. I'm sure it won't be the case if i continue on with this routine.

So quite a few of us at work decided to  take a stand and will only commit to a maximum of two hours overtime, which I'm sure is more then enough. So after all that life just went on as normal, and our supervisors seem to always take it onto themselves to try and finish all the work which makes them even more pressured and exhausted after the days work.

Well, I kind of had an argument with Ad's the other day concerning my job and how much I was being paid. He made a comment along the lines of "Well, maybe i could have gone off with someone richer and was wondering last night how someone in a tragic financial situation such as myself could be going out withs someone in a worse of situation. In a normal instance it would have been a funny joking matter, but due to the events that had recently passed, the comment which was made hit me straight in the gut. I guess at the moment he had not realised the significance of the comment and therefore made no attempt to apologise for it.

So i went to bed angry that night and feeling hurt about what was said. I really should have confronted him about it there and then instead of allowing it to fester up inside of me for the entire night and day and whilst doing so was playing the bitch card by snubbing his comments and acting all pissy without even giving him a reason as to why i was acting that way. I know i really should stop doing that. So the next day i went into work still feeling this anger burning inside of me that i just wanted to let out. Ad's called me for dinner, which I was quite tempted to ignore and i think he sensed that i was ignoring him because he messaged me asking me if i was giving him the silent treatment.

Although Kathy advised me that i should have kept it cool for the next few days to let things blow over, i decided that i should really just meet up with Ad's and tell him straight up how i felt and to tell him what he had said really hurt me. I had planned to meet up with him a little earlier to tell him about the issue before we went off for dinner. But unfortunately things didn't seem to work out as planned so dinner was kind of ruined by my fowl mood and not being able to speak up too much about how i felt in public.He didn't really understand where i was coming from with the issue so i had to explain it to him. Telling him how i felt lifted such a great weight off my shoulders and although everything had not returned to normal.I still felt much better and at the same time it as a another boundary we had crossed in our relationship. So everything i back to the way it is now with no resentment in the air and thats the way it should be.

So what else has been going on during the weeks. Well i watched my first ever AFL grand final game at the house in Gertrude St. and had a BBQ there and even though the game wasn't very interesting considering it was just such a one sided match after the first quarter, Geelong being in the lead of a 120 points at the end, the company was good and therefore i enjoyed myself quite a bit.

Nisha came over and paid a visit from Malaysia. Damn I've missed that girl and she always knows how to be such a joker, making me laugh all the time. Me and Ad's always went to the zoo which was heaps of fun and for him it was more exciting then he had imagined it to be which was a plus.I've also went for my first proper first job interview  which I was a bit nervous about but everything seemed to have gone on fine and I may be getting a new job soon(How Excitement!)

I really like spending time with Ad's, but at the same time we both have our social commitments to work, friends and family and therefore its always hard trying to have a balanced lifestyle. But so far i think we're doing quite fine. I enjoy the company of his friends and vice-versa.

I'm not sure how much happier i could be considering I have Ad's in my life now and that things are going along quite smoothly. I remember to thank God every night for the blessings he has gave me.

Time for bed now and I'll try and keep this posted more often if I can.

Why is it so hard for people to be honest with themselves?  Life just seems so hard when you can’t voice out what you’re thinking in the recesses of your mind. It’s just weird how much more liberating life feels when you can tell someone how you feel about an issue. Most of us feel like we don’t want offend the other person because what we’re troubled with may seem trivial and not important to bring up, in case it might spark some form of confrontation or argument.

It really depends on the person we’re approaching the issue with; some people generally want to open the flood gates of an argument with the slightest remark being made. Whereas most other people are a bit more understanding and accommodating and do want to hear you raise your opinion on issues, even though they may not necessarily want to hear the outcome.

I guess this has been something I’ve been trying to work on a bit more recently, especially with Adam. I’ve always kind of had a problem with raising issues that bothered me, because I thought they were too trivial and might end up in confrontation which I’ve always dreaded. I’ve started to learn that sometimes especially in relationships, the definition of trivial differs slightly when compared with issues dealt with friends. With friends I suppose, you don’t really care what they think and they’re opinions only go so far and it’s easier to let the issue go, whereas when you’re dealing with a partner, something trivial can be pushed aside, but can never be fully let go and that’s where the problem starts. Having these thoughts stored at the back of your mind, ever so often resurfacing when you’re angry. The more these thoughts start accumulating and are not dealt with in the open, the more they fester and eventually become reasons for you to be resentful towards your partner.

With honesty comes trust. Without trust, honesty would have no real meaning and trust is something that’s earned with honesty so I guess one cannot really exist without the other. In a relationship trust is a foundation block for a good and lasting relationship and should not come in bits and pieces but should be a 100%. Trust also comes with a price, it’s hard to gain but so very easy to lose and getting it to that 100% mark doesn’t come easily.

Anyways, I guess that’s the philosophical bit of this blog out of the way, as for the happenings of the past few weeks. I’ve spent a few days with Ads during those weeks, he was still kind of sick and so was it last weekend, so we didn’t exactly get up to much, spent most of it indoors watching movies and finally finishing God of War 2 together.(DAMN that was such a great game)

We had our second annual DTS Micro Bowling night on Wednesday and that was really great fun with so many crazy and stupid pictures to prove how much fun we had. I must congratulate Marlene for organizing the whole event and which she did really well. We managed to score extra platters. Like six platters of food for ever team of five, this meant that I really didn’t need to have that extra food beforehand. I came in 4^th out of the 16 people that were present. That was such an accomplishment. I even received a prize for it, yummy chocolates, which I’m probably not going to open. I’m restraining myself from snacks at the moment. Well to be fair, I’ve been doing that for a while now.

Anyways, will be seeing Ads again on Friday and I’m defiantly looking forward to that and the day after we’ll be having lunch with some of his workmates, all whom I’ve never met before, so I guess I’ll have to work on it a bit more which I don’t mind. This would be followed by dinner at night to celebrate our 2 month anniversary. Can’t wait! Life’s too good at the moment to feel down

Well, I've finally said the "L" word to Ad's and of course said it at an awkward time. Then again when are these moments ever not awkward?

At first I didn't receive a response when I whispered it just as we were about to fall asleep, so I repeated the words again after a moment of silence. It's a weird sensation when you mutter the three simple words; it's like your body itself doesn't really know how to react to the situation. At least the awkward moment passed when he returned the words. In some ways he seemed to be shying away from using the “L” word after he had said them about 2 weeks ago, I didn’t completely feel the same way and thus did not respond. Well at least everything is out in the open now and it’s good to have finally said it.

Spending more time with Adam these days seems like such rush, where time just seems to be going by so quickly when I’m with him in some ways it’s a good thing, but sometimes you tend to want to be in that moment for just a bit longer before departing from one another. I know, it’s kind of soppy but hey, I can be a hopeless romantic at times. (So Sue me!)

We also talked about how we complement one another’s personalities and why we figure, even though we’re both quite different people in terms of our superficial likings, we’re either similar or complimentary in many of the deeper morals and thoughts, which at the end of the day is what a couple should have. (Just my thoughts, some might think otherwise) I mean, I really do respect Adam and actually look up to him in many regards. We all have our faults in our personalities but they can be overlooked if you respect someone for whom they are and if they do the same.

Last week was also the first time I started my demonstrating job to second years at RMIT and was pretty nervous about the whole thing considering I had to look after a bunch 12-14 students, whom would be looking to me for answers and carrying out the demonstrations of some bits of the practical so it was pressure on me not to stuff out.

Low and behold, I had one of my students start a FIRE in the lab due to absolute stupidity, who uses a ethanol soaked cotton wool to wipe a an item which is on fire? I mean, I saw it as it happened and when the student picked up the cotton wool, I knew what he was about to do, and just as the words “NO!” came out of my mouth, the cotton wool was set alight in one big flame. It’s amazing how people respond to a fire breaking out, well, let’s phrase it another way. It’s amazing how people don’t respond when there’s a fire. The students were just stunned and shouting there’s a fire instead of trying to do something about it. I’ve dealt with a few fires outbreaks in my time and do I just found the nearest big solid object and stamped the flames out. I was quite impressed with how calmly I handled the situation and this was noted by the other demonstrators in the lab.

I didn’t lose my cool with the student and just asked him to continue on with his work and to be a bit more careful next time. Situation well handled I must say. AT the end of the session, I figured I went rather well, when the students all thanked me for carrying out the demonstration. It is a nice feeling to gain some gratitude for the work you’ve done.

Well another fresh week has started, though I guess not too well, considering I’m feeling a bit under the weather today. Ads and I may have caught something, which seems like the flu. Hopefully a whole heap of rest will charge up my batteries for work! Can’t wait till tomorrow before I meet Ads and also on Thursday for my second demonstrating session and God I pray that goes better than the last session.

Well, still no feedback as to how things went on Saturday, not being brought up after the meeting. I guess things could still go either way, though I would suspect that it would be positive. I may have made an error though when I decided that i was going to be staying an extra night over at his parents house. I mean it was nice enough for them to be putting up with me for one night, and the extra night may have been pushing it. Then again i'm just basing all these assumptions based on the Asian way i was brought up. My parents would not even allow us to sleep in the same room, though honestly i don't really see the point, and i guess I'll have to deal with the issue if it ever arises.

I must say I am really blow away with Adams culinary skills! Man was i so bloated after eating more then i could handle that night, though i really couldn't help myself from second helpings. For starters we had a lovely French Onion Soup which is actually my second favorite soup of all time, he couldn't get the choice of soup more right, besides my favorite mushroom soup. Next up we had a pasta bake with bolognase sauce, that was the dish I helped myself out with a large serving of seconds, and by the time we got to the desert I had to stuff the moist apple crumble down. All this just meant that I'll have to go into the gym for an extra day this week to work it all off.

Now onto the subject of his parents.What can i say, they are such lovely people, Janice and Dermot. They were really friendly and sociable and made sure i was comfortable whilst i was over in their home. I do hope they like me. The Coleman's really have quite a peculiar family dynamic where if a discussion arises and there are conflicting opinions, the voice levels tend to start increasing so that they can get their opinions herd. Such an event occurred during my visit and it was quite relaxing to sit back and listen to the debating whilst I could just sit back and relax and listen to the interesting things they had to talk about. Every now and then I'd throw in a few words to show my interest. They at least made sure i didn't feel uncomfortable in those situations by asking me for my opinions. I really do enjoy the company of his family, though Ad's was and still might be slightly concerned that it might be a bit too full on for me.Oh , and I bought his mom an orchid plant which she seemed to like and placed in on display in the living room, which was a relief to me, because i was worried if the plant might be a bit too much as a gift.

We went shopping the next day because Ad's wanted to get a white shirt, that kind of ended badly which put Ad's into kind of a sour mood for a bit. I really don't blame him though, especially when one of the store attendants was just being really difficult and refused to open up a shirt in the plastic bag for him to try on. I mean, he so would have bought the shirt if it fitted. Well, that weekend was actually the longest time i've spent with Ad's continuously, we've never really spent 2 consecutive days with one another. So I got to see the different sides of him, when he's disappointed, happy, sleepy, agitated, loving, cheeky. It was a nice and new experience for me. He seems to think that he wants me to only see his happy  and witty side. But for me, if I really want to love him and have this relationship work, I'll have to see every aspect of him and love him for it.

Anwyays, I'll be seeing him again tomorrow night for drinks with Tim and the elusive Lilly and tomorrows meeting may be an awkward one. Considering things between Tim and her aren't exactly going anywhere near smooth. Ad's agreed to come along although he really didn't have to go through the trouble, but it was nice of him, at least I can plan my exit strategy much easier with him around.

In some ways I know when you move back home with your parents you're kind of expected to be at home more often and spend more quality time with them. This topic did kind of present itself a few times in my conversations with his parents over the weekend, that they had hardly seen him since he moved back home. I guess I'll just have to lessen my neediness on Ad's and allow him to spend more time with his folks, i can handle that. Besides, I'd do the same if i was in that situation.

The next update will come soon hopefully! Stay Tuned!

Wow, time just seems to go by in an instant when you're having fun and being extremely happy at the same time. Although unofficially Ad's and I have been been seeing each other for about six weeks, we celebrated our one month anniversary on the 9th of July. The story goes that Ad's wasn't going to be in Melbourne if we set the date as the 24th of June, so our official anniversary became altered to the set date above.

The night before our anniversary we had a big night out for one of my workmates birthday parties, where Adam came along and met most of my workmates. I thought the whole night went reasonably well, with Adam getting along quite well with most of my workmates and they all loved him as well. Thats probably one thing you can expect when you have many friends whom are girls, they always seem to give you their opinion weather you ask for it or not. By the end of the night the birthday girl and 2 others were really drunk, and boy was that such a scene i won't forget for a while.

I headed off to the washroom just before our mains were served, and when i got back, Ad's had this look on his face showing he was going to ask me something but was a bit scared of the answer. This is how it went

Ad's : "How freaked out would you be if i told you i was falling in love with you?"
Me:    " *Pauses* "Uh, i wouldn't be freaked out at all, considering thats the way i feel."
Ad's:  "Oh good, i chose to say something at this time, because you wouldn't be able to run away."
Me:    *Laughs*

Boy that man sure knows how to make me laugh, even when we're having an awkward discussion, he's just able to diffuse the awkwardness quite easily.

All in all everything went as planned, no major muck ups, and i was surprised neither of us spilt anything at the dinner table this time. Ad's was nice enough to offer to pay for dinner, but i just said an outright no. I mean the number of times he's paid for a nice dinner is way more then i have. So this time it had to be my shout.Oh, and he was also wearing the scarf i bought for him.

Anyways, another surprise came in a delivery today, when i received a big bouquet of flowers and having quite a number of orchids in them, which he remembered were my favorite flowers.

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Well, looks like things are heading in a very good and steady direction.

More to come down the line i hope.

The weekend was quite eventful, spent most of it with Ads. Had a pub meal with him and twin brother, which was pretty interesting whenever they're both in the room. Twins normally have a distinct bond between each other unlike your average siblings. Its quite uncanny the way they think and act, and they never seem to have any endings to their conversations, they may eventually talk themselves to death if you left them together long enough (Ok that was a very bad joke).

Saturday was pretty slow moving, which was a good thing. Ad's abandoning me in bed to drop off some dry cleaning and leaving me to hold the fort all on my own. Later in the evening he had to have dinner with some people (no names mentioned) and we caught up for drinks at the Manchuria Bar after. It really is such a lovely spot to just chill out, its hard to really explain, you have to be there to know what i'm talking about. What was really eventful was that fact taht at 12am sharp, all the ashtrays were removed from the tables and where every indoor venue in Victoria essentially became smoke free. Ad's was arguing that they would probably be a bit relaxed of the new state laws and only enforce the laws the next working day, but he was proven wrong.

I spent the night at Ad's for the last night (He's moving back to his folks to try and save some money). Plans to leave at 8am failed (I was trying to be out of there before his dad arrived to help him move) I eventually left just in time and went back home, before heading out again to watch Transformers. I have to say, that was so action packed that i was almost stunned, what am i saying, i was stunned! I'll have to go watch it again!

Now here comes the next stage, where Ad's invited me to to have dinner with his folks on Saturday (and he's cooking! oh my! *faints*) I'll really have to be on my best behavior this time. Irrational fears kick in where i'm thinking i might give off a very bad impression.

Oh well, i guess I'll just have to wait and see what the critics reviews will be like on little ol me.

*Mental Note*(Need to start taking more pictures)

Me and Chorizo

So much to write about but so little energy to be interested in going into every detail of the past events.

As far back as I can remember,the 4th date was a dinner with me and a my brother,sister and Andrew.Afeter the whole dinner thingy, the date was coming to an end and this was when I initiated my plan of possibly staying over at his place by offering him a lift home (which was a success mind you) I know you might be reading this Ads(Adam) so don't go grinning too much. he was actually quiet hesitant of inviting me into the house, cause he was afraid of it being too messy and might have put me off. Living with my brother for so many years, I've seen the worst.It also received good feedback from my siblings which was always a plus.

Ads and I went on our 5th date( which also happened to be when we were officially a couple, cutting the long story short, he assumed we were a couple, but i just had to ask to receive some form of confirmation) We had dinner at Folrentino, before hading off to watch Miss Saigon, and losing our sense of time whilst we chatted away, we missed the start of the performance. The whole performance went really well, except towards the ending when I actually jumped in my chair, due to an unexpected ending. we ended up spending the night at my place.

So lets see, as far as my relationship goes everything is going smoothly. No major arguments yet, which I guess is a good sign of progress. Sure we have our little minor disagreements, but nothing that can't be solved with a little tact and compromise.

I decided to head up to Sydney fro a holiday the same time Ads was heading up, it actually took me quite a lot of time to consider if i should be going up at all, may be a little early to start planning a trip together. But he was heading up with a few of his mates, and thus i decided this would be a good opportunity to to catch up with a few of my really close friends in Sydney some on which i haven't seen in 3 years. I stayed over at Shaun's new apartment which looked really good i must admit. If i ever do decide to buy a house, he would be the person i'd go to for a second opinion on how to design it.

Ads took me to lunch at Cafe Sydney located at the top of the Sydney Customs House, where i must say, had a view of the harbor like nothing i've seen before. I was literally breath taken by the amazing view and beauty, which left me soaking all of the scenery in silence for a few minutes and which Ads got a bit worried cause i wasn't talking much. We met up for coffee with Shaun and Grace after before heading over to a dinner held by friends of Adam (a gay couple Mike and Peter) who cooked up a really lovely meal.

I had to leave back down to Melbourne the next day, but i must say in all honesty the holiday was probably one of the best I've ever had, I just felt so happy throughout the whole trip probably  cause i spent it with people whom i really adore.

Oh before i forget, Thanks Kathy for Chorizo!!! He's so damn adorable.

Well, its going to be a big one tomorrow, one of my workmates is having her birthday party in the city, and we're planning to get smashed lol.

It seems that my second date on the 26th of May was kinda of a disaster waiting to happen, basically caused i planned it i guess. The day started off with me spending 300 bucks to get my Microsoft Office Software cause nobody seemed to have a pirated copy laying around anywhere. I met up with Adam for lunch and then we headed down to take some Photo Stickers, which was such a terrifying experience for him, he seemed like he was in the twilight zone or something, where everything didn't make sense to him, and the poor boy was shivering as we were taking the photos, i felt bad making him take the photos, though he was nice and being a sport about it, exiting his comfort zone just so we could do something i wanted to do.He's sweet like that

Then we headed down to watch Pirates 3 at the Directors Suite at Melb Central, which again turned out to be quite awkward, considering that our seats were separated by a big table, and really kind of made it awkward to hold hands, and kissing was even more of an oddity.  Though i must say that Pirates 3 managed to redeem itself after the second part of the trilogy sent me sleeping halfway through.

Though things went really smoothly after the whole day, we ended up drinking at the Gin Palace, though drinking on an empty stomach got me kind of tipsy, and i hate it when i'm tipsy at times cause i just start talking crap.

Just when i thought things were going well, i somehow managed to forget where i parked my car, which has never happened to me before, and i was freaking out thinking someone may have jacked my car, the funny thing was that Adam was the one that actually located my car, considering he's never seen my car before.

The next day i caught up with Katt and we went out for dinner in the city where we had soup for dinner, though some French guy who was minding the shop was chopping up heaps of onions and needless to say, we came out of the shop as if we'd just come from a wake.Went for a drink at Robot after considering neither of us really wanted to go home.

The next date on the 30th of May went really well, this time obviously planned by Adam. We had a nice dinner, followed by heading off to a Jazz bar, where we ended up sitting down to some couple from the Queensland who were nice, but looked at us funny.Though i must say that i'm really enjoy our good night kisses, and its really getting extremely irresistible. I had planned to ask Adam to my place on Saturday where i'd cook him dinner, but he already had some party plans, at a workmates housewarming party, which i was quite surprised when he asked me if i owned a skivvy and if i wanted to join him at this party. It always scary to meet new people especially friends of his, cause of the pressure to impress them, but i'll manage, those situations used to scare me quite a bit, but i'm learning to step out of my comfort zone. He had actually planned to cancel on his friend after i suggested coming to my place on Saturday, but thats very unlike me, i don't want to ruin someones plans cause of my own, besides, i can cook dinner for him some other day.

Guess we'll just have to see how Saturday goes

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